This chick I know from the past who I've only banged , I never wanted nothing serious with her. We have never done anything intimate , ect. I think she always wanted to be serious with me. We recently just got back in contact late December. I can tell she still liked me as a romantic Interest and this time I was kind of digging her on that level a bit but never expressed that because I wasn't sure. She was showing high interest in me from Late December and all of January but I would blow her off . One day in mid Jan she called and I didn't answer and she left a text saying " You must have a girlfriend or something" ( why does that even concern you? Lol).
So I texted her one day and asked where she was at, she never replied. I texted her the next day no reply. I texted her the next day and asked if she ate,she said nope and i ask what did she want. She says " I'm going to get me something , my brother and my child is here. My child has eaten I just haven't been out yet" ( That was her first time ever opening up to me about something personal). I texted back " ok true" and went on about my day. She texted 7hrs later " Wyd though" ( I instantly knew that she didn't want to end the convo from earlier ). I never replied.
So a couple days later I ended up meeting her somewhere in public , she was a little shy when she saw my car, she hopped in and she was excited ect. We talked ect. I had a large knot on the side of my face because of an ingrown hair. She was showing major concern about it. Like literally. She said I need to go to the doctor and it looks like a spider bite. Of course me being a dude I wasn't thinking about a hospital. Long story short I told her I had some to do and I'll hit her up . She says ok and she says "hit me up". 2 hrs later guess who texts ? Her, she says " Go to the ****ing hospital , it looks like a spider bit and it looks real bad" ( I seemed that was an excuse to text me) but I never replied.
**This is where I could tell things changed just by the way she was texting me** 4 days later I finally text her " Where you at. Come smoke with me" she texts back and says " where are you? I'm out riding " I text her back an hr later and told her I was going to come her way. She replied later that night around 10pm with " wyd". I told her I was chilling and she never replied.
Something wasn't right..she would normally reply. So I woke up the next morning expecting a text back and still no text back.
So I text her " Where you at " and she never replied. Next day still no reply. So We'd of last week I'm a little angry and hoping she wasn't done with me. So I pop up at her house, it was 9 am. I knocked at the door, she asked who was it, I told her , and she opened it , some dude was there , I didn't trip because she's not my girl so I go inside sit down on the sofa. We all talking ECT. I had no animosity towards him vice versa.
But then things got awkward. It was quiet she wasn't talking anymore and he was quiet , and they both were getting dressed. I say " I'm about to go" she says " Lamar if you want to chill you can chill". So I say " I'm gone just leave " she gets mad (for some reason) and emotional a little and says " Lamar! If you want to chill you can chill, even if I'm not here you can still chill ". So he went off into the kitchen and I tell her in a low, nonchalant,carless way" I didn't know you had a boyfriend lol " she looks at me and says with her lips " that's not my boyfriend " and she waived her hand down as if she was trying to hit a flie ( I took it as if she wanted me to know that). So they are leaving. She's waiting by the door for him to come out I could tell he felt some type of way but he eventually went out. They come back , I noticed she made it inside the living room with me before he did lol.I told her I was about to go and she was like " Where are you about to go" as if she didn't want me to leave (he was sitting right there lol ). Im finishing my cig and she gets up and goes to the car to get a juice and I get up and leave also. As I'm walking out she's coming in past me, I told her " I'm about to go" and she keeps walking pass and says" ight hit me up".
At this point I was mad a little. So later that night I text her and say " I'm coming back through tomorrow" " we going to talk about something" " and if you don't text back I'm coming anyway" " so clear the house out". She never replied.
So the next day I show up to her apartment. Her car is there. I know she's there. I knock on the door , no one answers. I called no answer. So 30 mins later I call again, no answer. Then she calls back. When she answered she says "yea" in a dry/annoyed tone. I say " you busy? She says " I'm at home I'm about to leave" ( I felt like she was trying to avoid seeing me or decided to leave the moment I called her). I tell her " If I don't need to be calling your phone or showing up to your apt let me know"..she says " why you say that" ( I can hear the seriousness in her voice) and she says in a serious way " Lamar don't play with me" ( as if I offended her by saying that). She then says " you need to use my house?"..I tell her yes and she says well I'm about to pull off the door is unlocked ( as if she was rushing lol). So as I'm pulling into to her apt I see the guy and her seeming to be rushing into the car lol. Which was weird because she is not my GF lol. And it's crazy that she stopped what she was doing for me to use her house.
Long story short. I stayed there for about an hour and left. That was Thursday , it's Sunday and I haven't heard anything from her since. She would have normally text me by now. She has been on social media, I even went to the guys page and they were somewhere last night together on "live". Smh. Situation is confusing. This is clearly her boyfriend but why did she tell me he's not ? And why is she giving me access to her home when she's not there?? I don't get this.
So I texted her one day and asked where she was at, she never replied. I texted her the next day no reply. I texted her the next day and asked if she ate,she said nope and i ask what did she want. She says " I'm going to get me something , my brother and my child is here. My child has eaten I just haven't been out yet" ( That was her first time ever opening up to me about something personal). I texted back " ok true" and went on about my day. She texted 7hrs later " Wyd though" ( I instantly knew that she didn't want to end the convo from earlier ). I never replied.
So a couple days later I ended up meeting her somewhere in public , she was a little shy when she saw my car, she hopped in and she was excited ect. We talked ect. I had a large knot on the side of my face because of an ingrown hair. She was showing major concern about it. Like literally. She said I need to go to the doctor and it looks like a spider bite. Of course me being a dude I wasn't thinking about a hospital. Long story short I told her I had some to do and I'll hit her up . She says ok and she says "hit me up". 2 hrs later guess who texts ? Her, she says " Go to the ****ing hospital , it looks like a spider bit and it looks real bad" ( I seemed that was an excuse to text me) but I never replied.
**This is where I could tell things changed just by the way she was texting me** 4 days later I finally text her " Where you at. Come smoke with me" she texts back and says " where are you? I'm out riding " I text her back an hr later and told her I was going to come her way. She replied later that night around 10pm with " wyd". I told her I was chilling and she never replied.
Something wasn't right..she would normally reply. So I woke up the next morning expecting a text back and still no text back.
So I text her " Where you at " and she never replied. Next day still no reply. So We'd of last week I'm a little angry and hoping she wasn't done with me. So I pop up at her house, it was 9 am. I knocked at the door, she asked who was it, I told her , and she opened it , some dude was there , I didn't trip because she's not my girl so I go inside sit down on the sofa. We all talking ECT. I had no animosity towards him vice versa.
But then things got awkward. It was quiet she wasn't talking anymore and he was quiet , and they both were getting dressed. I say " I'm about to go" she says " Lamar if you want to chill you can chill". So I say " I'm gone just leave " she gets mad (for some reason) and emotional a little and says " Lamar! If you want to chill you can chill, even if I'm not here you can still chill ". So he went off into the kitchen and I tell her in a low, nonchalant,carless way" I didn't know you had a boyfriend lol " she looks at me and says with her lips " that's not my boyfriend " and she waived her hand down as if she was trying to hit a flie ( I took it as if she wanted me to know that). So they are leaving. She's waiting by the door for him to come out I could tell he felt some type of way but he eventually went out. They come back , I noticed she made it inside the living room with me before he did lol.I told her I was about to go and she was like " Where are you about to go" as if she didn't want me to leave (he was sitting right there lol ). Im finishing my cig and she gets up and goes to the car to get a juice and I get up and leave also. As I'm walking out she's coming in past me, I told her " I'm about to go" and she keeps walking pass and says" ight hit me up".
At this point I was mad a little. So later that night I text her and say " I'm coming back through tomorrow" " we going to talk about something" " and if you don't text back I'm coming anyway" " so clear the house out". She never replied.
So the next day I show up to her apartment. Her car is there. I know she's there. I knock on the door , no one answers. I called no answer. So 30 mins later I call again, no answer. Then she calls back. When she answered she says "yea" in a dry/annoyed tone. I say " you busy? She says " I'm at home I'm about to leave" ( I felt like she was trying to avoid seeing me or decided to leave the moment I called her). I tell her " If I don't need to be calling your phone or showing up to your apt let me know"..she says " why you say that" ( I can hear the seriousness in her voice) and she says in a serious way " Lamar don't play with me" ( as if I offended her by saying that). She then says " you need to use my house?"..I tell her yes and she says well I'm about to pull off the door is unlocked ( as if she was rushing lol). So as I'm pulling into to her apt I see the guy and her seeming to be rushing into the car lol. Which was weird because she is not my GF lol. And it's crazy that she stopped what she was doing for me to use her house.
Long story short. I stayed there for about an hour and left. That was Thursday , it's Sunday and I haven't heard anything from her since. She would have normally text me by now. She has been on social media, I even went to the guys page and they were somewhere last night together on "live". Smh. Situation is confusing. This is clearly her boyfriend but why did she tell me he's not ? And why is she giving me access to her home when she's not there?? I don't get this.
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