"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Confused?

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I usually don't think too much about problems like these, but I'm actually interested in this girl. So here is what is confusing me, this girl has a boyfriend, yet she still flirts with me. My friends say she is just a flirty girl and does this to everyone, but I don't think they fully understand.

This girl is obviously interested, she's always looking at me when I walk by and giving me weird looks. She is also always hitting me and pretty much giving all the signals. I'm confused because first off, she has a boyfriend, and second, one of my friends says she does this to everyone. She switched into one of my classes and sat across the room, btu the next day she came over and asked if anyone sat next to me. That was the first time i ever talked to her and she was acting flirty in like 2 days. The teacher moved her away from me but during movies she sits behind me and kicks the back of my chair. It's all elementary, but I'm damn sure those are some kind of signs.

The other day when she was getting into her car she yelled to me that I was a fag (obviously she was joking) and I sort of blew a kiss to her, it wasn't technically blowing a kiss to her, just making the noise you would if you were to kiss someone. She was all smiles, I though I had it in the bag then, but I can't get her out of my mind because if we talk on AIM or something, she acts as if she isn't interested at all. I would rather completely forget about her than have all this confusion, it irritates me! :cuss:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Quiksilver

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If a girl is acting that open, especially one who has a boyfriend, it's likely she's just messing around. Sure she might like you, but take it with a grain of salt. She also may just be keeping her teeth sharp on you.

I'm actually in situations like that too ... At parties and social gatherings, there are girls who, out of nowhere, sneak up behind me and grab my ass. Now, I know I'm a pretty sexy guy, but no girl with true interest would be that open, especially when she has a boyfriend.

Sure the option is always there and I'm sure if there were no social reprecussions that she'd **** you in a heartbeat, but it's very important not to develop oneitis for this kind of girl.
 

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Yeah, you're right. She doesn't take is far as grabbing my ass though.
 
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