"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Confused?

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I usually don't think too much about problems like these, but I'm actually interested in this girl. So here is what is confusing me, this girl has a boyfriend, yet she still flirts with me. My friends say she is just a flirty girl and does this to everyone, but I don't think they fully understand.

This girl is obviously interested, she's always looking at me when I walk by and giving me weird looks. She is also always hitting me and pretty much giving all the signals. I'm confused because first off, she has a boyfriend, and second, one of my friends says she does this to everyone. She switched into one of my classes and sat across the room, btu the next day she came over and asked if anyone sat next to me. That was the first time i ever talked to her and she was acting flirty in like 2 days. The teacher moved her away from me but during movies she sits behind me and kicks the back of my chair. It's all elementary, but I'm damn sure those are some kind of signs.

The other day when she was getting into her car she yelled to me that I was a fag (obviously she was joking) and I sort of blew a kiss to her, it wasn't technically blowing a kiss to her, just making the noise you would if you were to kiss someone. She was all smiles, I though I had it in the bag then, but I can't get her out of my mind because if we talk on AIM or something, she acts as if she isn't interested at all. I would rather completely forget about her than have all this confusion, it irritates me! :cuss:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Quiksilver

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If a girl is acting that open, especially one who has a boyfriend, it's likely she's just messing around. Sure she might like you, but take it with a grain of salt. She also may just be keeping her teeth sharp on you.

I'm actually in situations like that too ... At parties and social gatherings, there are girls who, out of nowhere, sneak up behind me and grab my ass. Now, I know I'm a pretty sexy guy, but no girl with true interest would be that open, especially when she has a boyfriend.

Sure the option is always there and I'm sure if there were no social reprecussions that she'd **** you in a heartbeat, but it's very important not to develop oneitis for this kind of girl.
 

Confused?

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Yeah, you're right. She doesn't take is far as grabbing my ass though.
 
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