"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Confused?

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I usually don't think too much about problems like these, but I'm actually interested in this girl. So here is what is confusing me, this girl has a boyfriend, yet she still flirts with me. My friends say she is just a flirty girl and does this to everyone, but I don't think they fully understand.

This girl is obviously interested, she's always looking at me when I walk by and giving me weird looks. She is also always hitting me and pretty much giving all the signals. I'm confused because first off, she has a boyfriend, and second, one of my friends says she does this to everyone. She switched into one of my classes and sat across the room, btu the next day she came over and asked if anyone sat next to me. That was the first time i ever talked to her and she was acting flirty in like 2 days. The teacher moved her away from me but during movies she sits behind me and kicks the back of my chair. It's all elementary, but I'm damn sure those are some kind of signs.

The other day when she was getting into her car she yelled to me that I was a fag (obviously she was joking) and I sort of blew a kiss to her, it wasn't technically blowing a kiss to her, just making the noise you would if you were to kiss someone. She was all smiles, I though I had it in the bag then, but I can't get her out of my mind because if we talk on AIM or something, she acts as if she isn't interested at all. I would rather completely forget about her than have all this confusion, it irritates me! :cuss:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If a girl is acting that open, especially one who has a boyfriend, it's likely she's just messing around. Sure she might like you, but take it with a grain of salt. She also may just be keeping her teeth sharp on you.

I'm actually in situations like that too ... At parties and social gatherings, there are girls who, out of nowhere, sneak up behind me and grab my ass. Now, I know I'm a pretty sexy guy, but no girl with true interest would be that open, especially when she has a boyfriend.

Sure the option is always there and I'm sure if there were no social reprecussions that she'd **** you in a heartbeat, but it's very important not to develop oneitis for this kind of girl.
 

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Yeah, you're right. She doesn't take is far as grabbing my ass though.
 
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