"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DonMEgaHoss

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The situation is that I work with this hb8 she gives me massive IOI's but after awhile of me being an dumbarse. Get her number, talk to her a little bit now and then outside work to see whats up.Then just recently I asked her for a favor to cut my hair just buzz cut, she said she would call back when she was available. Didn't. Said screw it and just speak minimally with her the few times I work with her . She acts like nothing happen, starts convo. with me get way in to my personal space. Hugs practically everyone else in the restraunt but me.

Then just the other night, instead of leaving after all her stuff was done she waited for me to finish cleaning the kitchen highly unusal for her hugs my friend goodbye then lastly me which she doesnt usually do also... Freakin' crazy chick but she's one of those sunshine chicks. So factor there and or attention ho. but Im crazy about her and I know I shouldn't be. When I try to walk away she's trying to drag me back in to being oneitis with her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just because she hugged you once after flaking on you, then ignoring you for a long time - that does not mean that she's trying to 'drag you back'.
 
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Maybe she was waiting for your friend? It's hard to tell. She could have realized that she lost your interest when she didnt call you and wanted to rekindle the flame, but hugged your friend because she did not want hime to feel unwanted?
 
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DonMEgaHoss said:
The situation is that I work with this hb8 she gives me massive IOI's but after awhile of me being an dumbarse. Get her number, talk to her a little bit now and then outside work to see whats up.Then just recently I asked her for a favor to cut my hair just buzz cut, she said she would call back when she was available. Didn't. Said screw it and just speak minimally with her the few times I work with her . She acts like nothing happen, starts convo. with me get way in to my personal space. Hugs practically everyone else in the restraunt but me.

Then just the other night, instead of leaving after all her stuff was done she waited for me to finish cleaning the kitchen highly unusal for her hugs my friend goodbye then lastly me which she doesnt usually do also... Freakin' crazy chick but she's one of those sunshine chicks. So factor there and or attention ho. but Im crazy about her and I know I shouldn't be. When I try to walk away she's trying to drag me back in to being oneitis with her.
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Oh God, stop overanalyzing. The only way you can know for sure is putting yourself out there into a situation where she HAS to make a choice. That's the ONLY way. Don't you have much better things to do with your life than wonder if some girl likes you or not? I do.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DonMEgaHoss

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Thanks Dynamic thats practically what Im thinking now definite waste of time. I Don't think she has much interest in my friend for several reasons which I dont which to slander him over.

But why touch me more, well knowingly if she doesn't fallow through..NExt
 
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