"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DonMEgaHoss

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The situation is that I work with this hb8 she gives me massive IOI's but after awhile of me being an dumbarse. Get her number, talk to her a little bit now and then outside work to see whats up.Then just recently I asked her for a favor to cut my hair just buzz cut, she said she would call back when she was available. Didn't. Said screw it and just speak minimally with her the few times I work with her . She acts like nothing happen, starts convo. with me get way in to my personal space. Hugs practically everyone else in the restraunt but me.

Then just the other night, instead of leaving after all her stuff was done she waited for me to finish cleaning the kitchen highly unusal for her hugs my friend goodbye then lastly me which she doesnt usually do also... Freakin' crazy chick but she's one of those sunshine chicks. So factor there and or attention ho. but Im crazy about her and I know I shouldn't be. When I try to walk away she's trying to drag me back in to being oneitis with her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sexxyback

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Just because she hugged you once after flaking on you, then ignoring you for a long time - that does not mean that she's trying to 'drag you back'.
 

Don John NJ

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Maybe she was waiting for your friend? It's hard to tell. She could have realized that she lost your interest when she didnt call you and wanted to rekindle the flame, but hugged your friend because she did not want hime to feel unwanted?
 

dynamicallyidle

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DonMEgaHoss said:
The situation is that I work with this hb8 she gives me massive IOI's but after awhile of me being an dumbarse. Get her number, talk to her a little bit now and then outside work to see whats up.Then just recently I asked her for a favor to cut my hair just buzz cut, she said she would call back when she was available. Didn't. Said screw it and just speak minimally with her the few times I work with her . She acts like nothing happen, starts convo. with me get way in to my personal space. Hugs practically everyone else in the restraunt but me.

Then just the other night, instead of leaving after all her stuff was done she waited for me to finish cleaning the kitchen highly unusal for her hugs my friend goodbye then lastly me which she doesnt usually do also... Freakin' crazy chick but she's one of those sunshine chicks. So factor there and or attention ho. but Im crazy about her and I know I shouldn't be. When I try to walk away she's trying to drag me back in to being oneitis with her.
Oh God, stop overanalyzing. The only way you can know for sure is putting yourself out there into a situation where she HAS to make a choice. That's the ONLY way. Don't you have much better things to do with your life than wonder if some girl likes you or not? I do.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DonMEgaHoss

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Thanks Dynamic thats practically what Im thinking now definite waste of time. I Don't think she has much interest in my friend for several reasons which I dont which to slander him over.

But why touch me more, well knowingly if she doesn't fallow through..NExt
 
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