Whats up guys, I'm new here and I have a problem. I read the articles at this site and others but when i remember the stuff out in the field there is noone arround. But when i see a HB i forget everything. is there someting to remind me or what?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Confused
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Docs
Banned
Just talk to her. That's the only thing you have to remember. Or else..you'll just be staring at her right?
bob88
Don Juan
Maybe you shouldnt try to remember EVERYTHING you read on the site for now. When you see an HB try to start out with the basics like smiling, eye contact, kino, and so forth. After you have no problem doing the basic things with any girl you talk to then you can start trying all the different "techniques" and stuff.
It worked for me.
It worked for me.
let me give u an advice. hang posters of the female stars that u find hot in ur room and learn how not to get all nervous. visualise how u wud act ard HBs... that would make u more relaxed and more confident. kthnx thats more than 1 advice i think =p
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.