Whats up guys, I'm new here and I have a problem. I read the articles at this site and others but when i remember the stuff out in the field there is noone arround. But when i see a HB i forget everything. is there someting to remind me or what?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Confused
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Docs
Banned
Just talk to her. That's the only thing you have to remember. Or else..you'll just be staring at her right?
bob88
Don Juan
Maybe you shouldnt try to remember EVERYTHING you read on the site for now. When you see an HB try to start out with the basics like smiling, eye contact, kino, and so forth. After you have no problem doing the basic things with any girl you talk to then you can start trying all the different "techniques" and stuff.
It worked for me.
It worked for me.
let me give u an advice. hang posters of the female stars that u find hot in ur room and learn how not to get all nervous. visualise how u wud act ard HBs... that would make u more relaxed and more confident. kthnx thats more than 1 advice i think =p
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.