"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i met this girl at work. we dont work together, she works at the store my company is restoring. We seem to have a connection, but i couldnt talk to her because we were working. that job ended today, and now i cant stop thinking about her. I'll probably never see her again and i only know her first name, and she did'nt give it to me. I am thinking of sending her roses and a card asking her to let me get to know her. Is this a smart thing to do. how should i go about this pursuit if not? I have a very strong feeling about her. Thanks:confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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find a reason to go back in and speak to her face to face!!

sending flowers without knowing her is sorta stalkerish!

deliver the invoice and take it to her.
 
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sending flowers???

people still do that

anyways, you just met her

what feelings are you talking about?

I'm a strong believer that things happen for a reason

don't pursue her
 
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I just cant get her out of my head. she could'nt look at me when we talked. We shared casual glances across the store. i feel theres somthing there. I cant let it go. and ya your probably right about the stalking thing. No flowers will be sent.
 
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LOL stop kidding around man! There have been many posts recently that appear to be jokes (ie. see "cold approaches dawg"), but in this case I will assume you are not joking...

reebo72, your feelings for her are getting seriously out of hand! From just 1 brief encounter, you are coming on way too strong! Even in the unlikely chance that you happen to randomly meet her again, you will scare her away if you keep up this state of infatuation.

What you can do:
- look your best
- have a fun/friendly/playful attitude
- dont be so damn focused on chasing women!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by reebo72
i met this girl at work. we dont work together, she works at the store my company is restoring. We seem to have a connection, but i couldnt talk to her because we were working. that job ended today, and now i cant stop thinking about her. I'll probably never see her again and i only know her first name, and she did'nt give it to me. I am thinking of sending her roses and a card asking her to let me get to know her. Is this a smart thing to do. how should i go about this pursuit if not? I have a very strong feeling about her. Thanks:confused:
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I'll tell you what:Screw the flowers and all that crap,ask her out! If she says no f*ck her..
 
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I know i got way out of hand. thats why i came here, to be pulled down to earth. Thanks guys. please keep up the good and blunt advice, i need to focus on having fun and not obsessing. i guess im afraid to get turned down. I know what a p%$sy.
 
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