"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i met this girl at work. we dont work together, she works at the store my company is restoring. We seem to have a connection, but i couldnt talk to her because we were working. that job ended today, and now i cant stop thinking about her. I'll probably never see her again and i only know her first name, and she did'nt give it to me. I am thinking of sending her roses and a card asking her to let me get to know her. Is this a smart thing to do. how should i go about this pursuit if not? I have a very strong feeling about her. Thanks:confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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find a reason to go back in and speak to her face to face!!

sending flowers without knowing her is sorta stalkerish!

deliver the invoice and take it to her.
 
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sending flowers???

people still do that

anyways, you just met her

what feelings are you talking about?

I'm a strong believer that things happen for a reason

don't pursue her
 
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I just cant get her out of my head. she could'nt look at me when we talked. We shared casual glances across the store. i feel theres somthing there. I cant let it go. and ya your probably right about the stalking thing. No flowers will be sent.
 
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LOL stop kidding around man! There have been many posts recently that appear to be jokes (ie. see "cold approaches dawg"), but in this case I will assume you are not joking...

reebo72, your feelings for her are getting seriously out of hand! From just 1 brief encounter, you are coming on way too strong! Even in the unlikely chance that you happen to randomly meet her again, you will scare her away if you keep up this state of infatuation.

What you can do:
- look your best
- have a fun/friendly/playful attitude
- dont be so damn focused on chasing women!!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by reebo72
i met this girl at work. we dont work together, she works at the store my company is restoring. We seem to have a connection, but i couldnt talk to her because we were working. that job ended today, and now i cant stop thinking about her. I'll probably never see her again and i only know her first name, and she did'nt give it to me. I am thinking of sending her roses and a card asking her to let me get to know her. Is this a smart thing to do. how should i go about this pursuit if not? I have a very strong feeling about her. Thanks:confused:
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I'll tell you what:Screw the flowers and all that crap,ask her out! If she says no f*ck her..
 
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I know i got way out of hand. thats why i came here, to be pulled down to earth. Thanks guys. please keep up the good and blunt advice, i need to focus on having fun and not obsessing. i guess im afraid to get turned down. I know what a p%$sy.
 
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