confused

[reebo72]

i met this girl at work. we dont work together, she works at the store my company is restoring. We seem to have a connection, but i couldnt talk to her because we were working. that job ended today, and now i cant stop thinking about her. I'll probably never see her again and i only know her first name, and she did'nt give it to me. I am thinking of sending her roses and a card asking her to let me get to know her. Is this a smart thing to do. how should i go about this pursuit if not? I have a very strong feeling about her. Thanks

 

[penkitten]

no!
find a reason to go back in and speak to her face to face!!

sending flowers without knowing her is sorta stalkerish!

deliver the invoice and take it to her.

 

[escobar04]

sending flowers???

people still do that

anyways, you just met her

what feelings are you talking about?

I'm a strong believer that things happen for a reason

don't pursue her

 

[reebo72]

I just cant get her out of my head. she could'nt look at me when we talked. We shared casual glances across the store. i feel theres somthing there. I cant let it go. and ya your probably right about the stalking thing. No flowers will be sent.

 

[cant think of a user name]

LOL stop kidding around man! There have been many posts recently that appear to be jokes (ie. see "cold approaches dawg"), but in this case I will assume you are not joking...

reebo72, your feelings for her are getting seriously out of hand! From just 1 brief encounter, you are coming on way too strong! Even in the unlikely chance that you happen to randomly meet her again, you will scare her away if you keep up this state of infatuation.

What you can do:
- look your best
- have a fun/friendly/playful attitude
- dont be so damn focused on chasing women!!!

 

[Freeman]

Originally posted by reebo72
i met this girl at work. we dont work together, she works at the store my company is restoring. We seem to have a connection, but i couldnt talk to her because we were working. that job ended today, and now i cant stop thinking about her. I'll probably never see her again and i only know her first name, and she did'nt give it to me. I am thinking of sending her roses and a card asking her to let me get to know her. Is this a smart thing to do. how should i go about this pursuit if not? I have a very strong feeling about her. Thanks

I'll tell you what:Screw the flowers and all that crap,ask her out! If she says no f*ck her..

 

[reebo72]

I know i got way out of hand. thats why i came here, to be pulled down to earth. Thanks guys. please keep up the good and blunt advice, i need to focus on having fun and not obsessing. i guess im afraid to get turned down. I know what a p%$sy.