"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I met this hot girl at a movie a week before Christmas, she was all over me, laying on me. Holding hands, She gave me her number. And we talked almost everyday until Christmas, That day she called me and we talked about 30 mins, She said she would call me back and hasn't in like a week. I dunno if I should call her back....Or not...I'm going to, to see whats up. But WTF do you think her deal is? I'm gonna feel ****ty if it's something like she's hurt or sick.
 

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This is a real example of how the disinterest principle works. This poor guy is worried about whether a girl likes him, because she hasn't contacted him. It's not that she ignored him completely, it's that she gave him a taste and took it away.

Unfortunately, if she's playing a game, she may lose because if she wants him to call, she's set herself up for failure. She'll be unhappy if he does call, and she'll think he's not interested if he does.

Ok dude, let it go a full week and if she doesn't call, call or email and flat out ask if she's still interested. She'll either respond or she won't, but it will cue her that she's holding out too long.
 
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Good lord guys...Questions belong in Discussion...*sigh*
 
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Originally posted by MackJr
This is a real example of how the disinterest principle works. This poor guy is worried about whether a girl likes him, because she hasn't contacted him. It's not that she ignored him completely, it's that she gave him a taste and took it away.

Unfortunately, if she's playing a game, she may lose because if she wants him to call, she's set herself up for failure. She'll be unhappy if he does call, and she'll think he's not interested if he does.

Ok dude, let it go a full week and if she doesn't call, call or email and flat out ask if she's still interested. She'll either respond or she won't, but it will cue her that she's holding out too long.
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Oh really? That's your professional assessment? She was laying all over him and holding hands and he should wait another week to call her????

Listen... just call her and see if she is interested by telling her you want to see her. If she is interested, she'll respond or "perhaps" she has something else going on. If not interested, she won't respond.

So .... call her a couple times and if she's not responsive, write her off.....
 
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