"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Confused!

Ekimuk

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Hello guys, just need a little advice.
i'm in uni this year, living in halls i think that this girl down the hall fancies me. whether i fancy her or not i'm still deciding. thing is, she gives off quite mixed signals which makes it confusing.

she's been giving me a lot of signals that she's quite into me. for example, our floor went out clubbin one night, and eventually she comes over and starts grinding with me which lasts all night really. i usually go for the pull (snog) if this happens but she didn't seem to want too. (her head was too the side when we were dancing)

after that we spent the last two nights once in her room and once in mine talking and flirting, making her laugh and using quite a bit of kino and at times she seems responsive and at others she seems to pull back.

on the second night she turns up with a bottle of wine (it was her bday) at like 12 pm saying "you haven't had a drink with me yet.." so i thought this was a strong signal and start the flirting again, but she just seemed to pull away after a while.

my friends keep tellin me to "make a move" but i'm not to sure how to really and what makes it worse is that her behaviour confuses me.

what do you guys think? is she just playing with me?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

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MisterAl

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LIsten to your friends. You've wasted a lot of time and opportunities with a woman that has been showing buying signals.

On the other hand, she lives on your floor and sounds like a flake. I had a problem with that in my college days when I had to see and confront the same flaker for the rest of the school year.
 

xblitz44x

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Compete with her in some activity. Tell her that the loser has to give the winner a massage. Lose. Drink wine with her, get her feeling good, give her a massage, start letting her feel your breath on the back of your neck, then kiss her.
 
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