"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So I have no idea what to think of this....Took this chick out a couple of times we really connected I always ended the date. Did not pay for her. Lately it has been hard for me to get her to hang out. ex. the other night I was like you wanna do something after work. she said no she had plans. 2 days later she calls wanting to do something just so happend I was free and we hung out.... also she does this bs where she texts me asks me a question and ill answer and ask her something then no response for like 1 3 hours and then shell text something totally off topic...kinda confused
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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OamImrsNemo

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But if she has low interest why she trying to contact me all the time. I ignored her for 3 days. she texted me at least once every day. I decided she earned something so i replied......nothing so i called her left a message......she called back i didnt answer....i called a half hour later......nothing back...i dont get it some fackin mind games or what? any help would be awesome
 
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make sure u r spining plates brah thats all i can tell you
 
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OamImrsNemo said:
But if she has low interest why she trying to contact me all the time. I ignored her for 3 days. she texted me at least once every day. I decided she earned something so i replied......nothing so i called her left a message......she called back i didnt answer....i called a half hour later......nothing back...i dont get it some fackin mind games or what? any help would be awesome
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That bold part might have something to do with your problem.... She's simply playing the same game right back at you..... if your a chump; you'll panic and start chasing her more.

But in either case, you shouldn't ignore a girl for 3 days that you have interest in. Even if she texts you something lame everyday, you don't have to reply to all of them, but you should reply to some if you wanna bang her.




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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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