"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OamImrsNemo

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So I have no idea what to think of this....Took this chick out a couple of times we really connected I always ended the date. Did not pay for her. Lately it has been hard for me to get her to hang out. ex. the other night I was like you wanna do something after work. she said no she had plans. 2 days later she calls wanting to do something just so happend I was free and we hung out.... also she does this bs where she texts me asks me a question and ill answer and ask her something then no response for like 1 3 hours and then shell text something totally off topic...kinda confused
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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OamImrsNemo

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But if she has low interest why she trying to contact me all the time. I ignored her for 3 days. she texted me at least once every day. I decided she earned something so i replied......nothing so i called her left a message......she called back i didnt answer....i called a half hour later......nothing back...i dont get it some fackin mind games or what? any help would be awesome
 
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make sure u r spining plates brah thats all i can tell you
 
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OamImrsNemo said:
But if she has low interest why she trying to contact me all the time. I ignored her for 3 days. she texted me at least once every day. I decided she earned something so i replied......nothing so i called her left a message......she called back i didnt answer....i called a half hour later......nothing back...i dont get it some fackin mind games or what? any help would be awesome
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That bold part might have something to do with your problem.... She's simply playing the same game right back at you..... if your a chump; you'll panic and start chasing her more.

But in either case, you shouldn't ignore a girl for 3 days that you have interest in. Even if she texts you something lame everyday, you don't have to reply to all of them, but you should reply to some if you wanna bang her.




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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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