"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bluemanson

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hi guys. what do you guys think of this.
this chick i work, we decided that we will go out one day in the week.
we will take half day off that day and have lunch and do stuff together.
this is her email i got today

We will have to make it some other time, I want to take the whole day off then. Cos i just confirmed a reservation I made for my parents and I want to be home early as they have to be there at 6 and no one will be there for my sisters.

But I still wanted to do that, so I'm gonna go to Claremont and go to the movies, and stuff like I said :) you're welcome to join me?


do you guys think this is genuine and she wants me to join her.

we havent really gone out together alone before and this is the 1st time
but im not sure if she interested or not :rolleyes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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slaog

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With the '?' at the end I think she's asking a question rather then being polite. Sometimes people can't make it for genuine reasons so I'd give her the benefit of the doubt. If she makes a habit of changing plans then thats a different story..


I reckon she wants you to go on the date from what you have written. Some more information would be good.


Go and have fun abd don't be wondering if she likes you. Presume (act like) she likes you but don't get your hopes up.
 

Telos

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We will have to make it some other time, I want to take the whole day off then.
I don't know if I'm misinterpreting this, but it sounds to me like she's saying that when she does find the time to see you, she plans to take the entire day off. Which would obviously mean she wants to see you and that her interest level is high. I don't think she's flaking.
 

Dannyrt34

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If she didn't try to reschedule with you, then she's not interested.
Looks to me like she genuinely can't make it on your date, so she's offering for you to do something else with her. Sounds like interest to me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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