"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bluemanson

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hi guys. what do you guys think of this.
this chick i work, we decided that we will go out one day in the week.
we will take half day off that day and have lunch and do stuff together.
this is her email i got today

We will have to make it some other time, I want to take the whole day off then. Cos i just confirmed a reservation I made for my parents and I want to be home early as they have to be there at 6 and no one will be there for my sisters.

But I still wanted to do that, so I'm gonna go to Claremont and go to the movies, and stuff like I said :) you're welcome to join me?


do you guys think this is genuine and she wants me to join her.

we havent really gone out together alone before and this is the 1st time
but im not sure if she interested or not :rolleyes:
 

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slaog

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With the '?' at the end I think she's asking a question rather then being polite. Sometimes people can't make it for genuine reasons so I'd give her the benefit of the doubt. If she makes a habit of changing plans then thats a different story..


I reckon she wants you to go on the date from what you have written. Some more information would be good.


Go and have fun abd don't be wondering if she likes you. Presume (act like) she likes you but don't get your hopes up.
 

Telos

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We will have to make it some other time, I want to take the whole day off then.
I don't know if I'm misinterpreting this, but it sounds to me like she's saying that when she does find the time to see you, she plans to take the entire day off. Which would obviously mean she wants to see you and that her interest level is high. I don't think she's flaking.
 

Dannyrt34

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If she didn't try to reschedule with you, then she's not interested.
Looks to me like she genuinely can't make it on your date, so she's offering for you to do something else with her. Sounds like interest to me.
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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