so i met the girl maybe 3 weeks ago....we hung out once...she went on vacattion for a week after that...then we made plans to chill but she flaked on me...told me she wasnt sure if she was interested because im "quiet" or quiter than most guys. at school i kept talkin to her though, and kino'd a bit...hugs..touchin when talking. and now tonight i asked her to the movies tomorrow and she said yes. after saying 2 days ago that she wasnt sure if she was interested. so wtf is going on here....is she gona flake on me again tomorrow? or did i just get her interested again
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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- Thread starter Bjj_playa
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Only one way to tell mate, show up and hope she does aswell. Looks like you may have shown her you aint as quiet as she thinks, or you may have just found a girl who prefers to say yes and flake rather than say no.
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
Buying temperature at its finest. The one min its yes, the next min its no. I don't want to write a report about BT because everyone should know about BT by now. Just know girls live in the emotions of the moment. if she says no one min just keep attracting her and then try again.
What she did is typical girl thing, if you don't understand the female psychology then it will be confusing.
What she did is typical girl thing, if you don't understand the female psychology then it will be confusing.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
I'm not too sure myself but I recon it's to do with how unpradictable a girl can be and always changing their mind, like the temperature.Bjj_playa said:explain "BT"
Thats where my logic leads me anyway.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.