so i met the girl maybe 3 weeks ago....we hung out once...she went on vacattion for a week after that...then we made plans to chill but she flaked on me...told me she wasnt sure if she was interested because im "quiet" or quiter than most guys. at school i kept talkin to her though, and kino'd a bit...hugs..touchin when talking. and now tonight i asked her to the movies tomorrow and she said yes. after saying 2 days ago that she wasnt sure if she was interested. so wtf is going on here....is she gona flake on me again tomorrow? or did i just get her interested again
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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- Thread starter Bjj_playa
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Only one way to tell mate, show up and hope she does aswell. Looks like you may have shown her you aint as quiet as she thinks, or you may have just found a girl who prefers to say yes and flake rather than say no.
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
Buying temperature at its finest. The one min its yes, the next min its no. I don't want to write a report about BT because everyone should know about BT by now. Just know girls live in the emotions of the moment. if she says no one min just keep attracting her and then try again.
What she did is typical girl thing, if you don't understand the female psychology then it will be confusing.
What she did is typical girl thing, if you don't understand the female psychology then it will be confusing.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
I'm not too sure myself but I recon it's to do with how unpradictable a girl can be and always changing their mind, like the temperature.Bjj_playa said:explain "BT"
Thats where my logic leads me anyway.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.