Confused. Way confused.

[calvran]

Okay, I posted a field report a few weeks ago about my first kiss, with this girl at a club. She's been tripping me out hardcore since then. I tried calling her later that week, she didn't pick up so I said I'd call back later, tried back the next day with no answer. She texted me the next day asking if I could text messages, I said yeah. Texted her on a Monday saying hey, she asked "when am I going to see you again?" I say, "How about Thursday night?"
She says "I have a funeral I have to go to thursday but any other day is good" I say "Okay, maybe tomorrow after I get off work?"
No reply. She texts me a few days later saying "I miss you I really want to see you." I reply "I want to see you too, what are you doing this weekend?" She never replied. She texts me today, saying 'What's up with me and you?' I replied, "what do you mean?". My phone has serious issues (won't make calls 90% of the time, etc) so I figured I would give her the benefit of the doubt here, before I got pissed and gave up. I texted her from a friends phone saying "This is Nick. Have you been getting the messages from my phone?"

No reply to either. Finally tonight I sent her a text asking "Can I call you? I want to talk to you." I'm confused as heck. What's going on?

 

[dbot]

hell if I know. Just don't worry about her and quit calling. Let her confront you in person.

 

[wh01987]

F-uck asking if you can call her. With what shes been doing to you, call her until your battery goes dead.

 

[RockGuitarist]

Here's what my response to this would be:

My first response would be the obvious "What the f'uck?" After which I would maybe scratch my head for about a second and wonder whether I should continue to mack this broad or what.

Next I would straight up ask her "What the f'uck?"

No responses, "what's up with me and you?", f'uckin funerals?

Dude, you either gotta next this chick and look for other more rewarding prospects (basically, other chicks you can bang), or you just gotta f'uckin' ask her, "What the hell is going on?" You also stated you've been texting her a good dozen times with no response. This is making you come off as just plain needy. You are afflicted with infatuation (aka "trippin you out hardcore"). Infatuation is not a good thing for rational decisions. You need to get f'uckin serious and ask her what the hell is going on or next her, man, because if you aren't getting any response from this broad and she's just danglin' you from a string like that then she is wasting your time.

Later,
DJBedford.

 

[FBGangsta]

Why the f*ck are you just text messaging her? Just call her!!!!!!!!

 

[PiHiPlaya]

exactly, if she texts you she obviously has her phone on

**** the messages that waste money and use the phone for what is was made for. Call her.

 

[triple_ultima]

Wait I'm confused. You called her, then left her a message, and then called back the next day? WHY? Do you not have anything better to do than play this ho's game? Jesus Christ man, get up out of your chair and walk outside. Take a deep breath of fresh air, and then NEVER CALL HER AGAIN! Who cares about her? Not everything works out the way you would like.

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