"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Confused. Way confused.

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Okay, I posted a field report a few weeks ago about my first kiss, with this girl at a club. She's been tripping me out hardcore since then. I tried calling her later that week, she didn't pick up so I said I'd call back later, tried back the next day with no answer. She texted me the next day asking if I could text messages, I said yeah. Texted her on a Monday saying hey, she asked "when am I going to see you again?" I say, "How about Thursday night?"
She says "I have a funeral I have to go to thursday but any other day is good" I say "Okay, maybe tomorrow after I get off work?"
No reply. She texts me a few days later saying "I miss you I really want to see you." I reply "I want to see you too, what are you doing this weekend?" She never replied. She texts me today, saying 'What's up with me and you?' I replied, "what do you mean?". My phone has serious issues (won't make calls 90% of the time, etc) so I figured I would give her the benefit of the doubt here, before I got pissed and gave up. I texted her from a friends phone saying "This is Nick. Have you been getting the messages from my phone?"

No reply to either. Finally tonight I sent her a text asking "Can I call you? I want to talk to you." I'm confused as heck. What's going on?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hell if I know. Just don't worry about her and quit calling. Let her confront you in person.
 
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F-uck asking if you can call her. With what shes been doing to you, call her until your battery goes dead.
 
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Here's what my response to this would be:

My first response would be the obvious "What the f'uck?" After which I would maybe scratch my head for about a second and wonder whether I should continue to mack this broad or what.

Next I would straight up ask her "What the f'uck?"

No responses, "what's up with me and you?", f'uckin funerals?

Dude, you either gotta next this chick and look for other more rewarding prospects (basically, other chicks you can bang), or you just gotta f'uckin' ask her, "What the hell is going on?" You also stated you've been texting her a good dozen times with no response. This is making you come off as just plain needy. You are afflicted with infatuation (aka "trippin you out hardcore"). Infatuation is not a good thing for rational decisions. You need to get f'uckin serious and ask her what the hell is going on or next her, man, because if you aren't getting any response from this broad and she's just danglin' you from a string like that then she is wasting your time.

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Why the f*ck are you just text messaging her? Just call her!!!!!!!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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exactly, if she texts you she obviously has her phone on

**** the messages that waste money and use the phone for what is was made for. Call her.
 
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Wait I'm confused. You called her, then left her a message, and then called back the next day? WHY? Do you not have anything better to do than play this ho's game? Jesus Christ man, get up out of your chair and walk outside. Take a deep breath of fresh air, and then NEVER CALL HER AGAIN! Who cares about her? Not everything works out the way you would like.

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