"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jetset22

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I've gotten lots of good info from you guys but never had to post. Recently however, I've become a little confused and need some guidance. 2 years ago I dated a girl for 6 months. Liked her a lot. She broke up with me for a stupid reason. This past Christmas I ran into her and she called and we started spending a lot of time together. She was talking to a guy so she started dating him and didnt talk to me for the duration of their relationship ( a month). Now that they broke up we talk quite a bit and spend time together as well.
Here is my problem - I think she still talks to other guys, she drinks quite a bit, goes to the club often (which I don't really like), and today I found out she might have posted an ad on craigslist looking for a sugar daddy. This was totally unexpected but the age, height, and weight match. Also she has been saying how she wants to be spoiled lately. So my question is - Since I really like her, should I continue to spend time with her and take it to the relationship level or are girls like this nothing but trouble?
Thanks guys:confused:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think the general opinion would be to hump and dump, and don't spend a dime on her. Get the lay, then ditch her ass.

Then again I could say that about any chick. They all have secrets to hide, and things that would make them not be worthy for anything more than a lay.
 

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jetset22 said:
I've gotten lots of good info from you guys but never had to post. Recently however, I've become a little confused and need some guidance. 2 years ago I dated a girl for 6 months. Liked her a lot. #1 She broke up with me for a stupid reason. This past Christmas I ran into her and she called and we started spending a lot of time together. #2 She was talking to a guy so she started dating him and didnt talk to me for the duration of their relationship ( a month). Now that they broke up we talk quite a bit and spend time together as well. Here is my problem - I think she still talks to other guys, #3 she drinks quite a bit, goes to the club often (which I don't really like), and today I found out she might have posted an ad on craigslist looking for a sugar daddy. This was totally unexpected but the age, height, and weight match. Also#4 she has been saying how she wants to be spoiled lately. So my question is - Since I really like her, should I continue to spend time with her and take it to the relationship level or are girls like this nothing but trouble?
Thanks guys:confused:

#1 She broke up with you for a stupid reason = she just lost interest. move on unless you want one-itis
#2 You're her "Fallback guy" which means the only reason she's talking to you is so she can satisfy her lust for attention until a better guy comes along
#3 Okay, you don't like that stuff about her clearly, ask yourself this, "why is she worth my time?"
#4 She wants to be spoiled = Buy me some stuff chump.

I suggest you leave her alone completely, she's using you and you'll just get demoralized and crushed if you continue this relationship.
She's a golddigger, so unless you have booku bucks, there's no point.
 
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