Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I've gotten lots of good info from you guys but never had to post. Recently however, I've become a little confused and need some guidance. 2 years ago I dated a girl for 6 months. Liked her a lot. She broke up with me for a stupid reason. This past Christmas I ran into her and she called and we started spending a lot of time together. She was talking to a guy so she started dating him and didnt talk to me for the duration of their relationship ( a month). Now that they broke up we talk quite a bit and spend time together as well.
Here is my problem - I think she still talks to other guys, she drinks quite a bit, goes to the club often (which I don't really like), and today I found out she might have posted an ad on craigslist looking for a sugar daddy. This was totally unexpected but the age, height, and weight match. Also she has been saying how she wants to be spoiled lately. So my question is - Since I really like her, should I continue to spend time with her and take it to the relationship level or are girls like this nothing but trouble?
Thanks guys:confused:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think the general opinion would be to hump and dump, and don't spend a dime on her. Get the lay, then ditch her ass.

Then again I could say that about any chick. They all have secrets to hide, and things that would make them not be worthy for anything more than a lay.
 

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jetset22 said:
I've gotten lots of good info from you guys but never had to post. Recently however, I've become a little confused and need some guidance. 2 years ago I dated a girl for 6 months. Liked her a lot. #1 She broke up with me for a stupid reason. This past Christmas I ran into her and she called and we started spending a lot of time together. #2 She was talking to a guy so she started dating him and didnt talk to me for the duration of their relationship ( a month). Now that they broke up we talk quite a bit and spend time together as well. Here is my problem - I think she still talks to other guys, #3 she drinks quite a bit, goes to the club often (which I don't really like), and today I found out she might have posted an ad on craigslist looking for a sugar daddy. This was totally unexpected but the age, height, and weight match. Also#4 she has been saying how she wants to be spoiled lately. So my question is - Since I really like her, should I continue to spend time with her and take it to the relationship level or are girls like this nothing but trouble?
Thanks guys:confused:

#1 She broke up with you for a stupid reason = she just lost interest. move on unless you want one-itis
#2 You're her "Fallback guy" which means the only reason she's talking to you is so she can satisfy her lust for attention until a better guy comes along
#3 Okay, you don't like that stuff about her clearly, ask yourself this, "why is she worth my time?"
#4 She wants to be spoiled = Buy me some stuff chump.

I suggest you leave her alone completely, she's using you and you'll just get demoralized and crushed if you continue this relationship.
She's a golddigger, so unless you have booku bucks, there's no point.
 
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