"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ok.. there is this girl i really care about who i dated about 5 months ago.. we have always seemed to have a thing for each other since then.. she hasnt dated anyone .. while i have... she is a very hard girl to get and loves to play games. shes played games wit me for like 3 months and then when i finnally date someone else she gets pissed.... i saw her at a party once this summer and have called her 4 or 5 times.. the convos went good and all..... shud i even bother calling her back and if so how do i approach it i dont wanna be her *****.. or just leave it alone and look for other girls..??
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Maybe she's treating you as her emotional tampon???
If YOU need to call her "4 or 5" times but she never inturn calls you back (or calls you first) I dont think thats a good sign.
She 's probably using you as an emergency secondary "boyfriend". (Like you know, when she cant find someone to date she will go to you as the last resort.)

(This should be your final call)
You could try asking her out for coffee and see what happens. If she gives you some lame excuse then tell her you letting her lose. Let her chase you instead. If she doesnt give you a satisfactory response then THE HELL WITH HER! Rub that in her face.

Repeat to yourself. YOU ARE NOT HER EMOTIONAL TAMPON
 
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Originally posted by texashorns55
ok.. there is this girl i really care about who i dated about 5 months ago.. we have always seemed to have a thing for each other since then.. she hasnt dated anyone .. while i have... she is a very hard girl to get and loves to play games. shes played games wit me for like 3 months and then when i finnally date someone else she gets pissed.... i saw her at a party once this summer and have called her 4 or 5 times.. the convos went good and all..... shud i even bother calling her back and if so how do i approach it i dont wanna be her *****.. or just leave it alone and look for other girls..??
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The sound from your message is more like you are afriad to act like a wussy or confused if you are a wussy or not.

Ask her out, lead, have fun, flirt... i don't think that is such confusing.
 
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