"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok.. there is this girl i really care about who i dated about 5 months ago.. we have always seemed to have a thing for each other since then.. she hasnt dated anyone .. while i have... she is a very hard girl to get and loves to play games. shes played games wit me for like 3 months and then when i finnally date someone else she gets pissed.... i saw her at a party once this summer and have called her 4 or 5 times.. the convos went good and all..... shud i even bother calling her back and if so how do i approach it i dont wanna be her *****.. or just leave it alone and look for other girls..??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maybe she's treating you as her emotional tampon???
If YOU need to call her "4 or 5" times but she never inturn calls you back (or calls you first) I dont think thats a good sign.
She 's probably using you as an emergency secondary "boyfriend". (Like you know, when she cant find someone to date she will go to you as the last resort.)

(This should be your final call)
You could try asking her out for coffee and see what happens. If she gives you some lame excuse then tell her you letting her lose. Let her chase you instead. If she doesnt give you a satisfactory response then THE HELL WITH HER! Rub that in her face.

Repeat to yourself. YOU ARE NOT HER EMOTIONAL TAMPON
 
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Originally posted by texashorns55
ok.. there is this girl i really care about who i dated about 5 months ago.. we have always seemed to have a thing for each other since then.. she hasnt dated anyone .. while i have... she is a very hard girl to get and loves to play games. shes played games wit me for like 3 months and then when i finnally date someone else she gets pissed.... i saw her at a party once this summer and have called her 4 or 5 times.. the convos went good and all..... shud i even bother calling her back and if so how do i approach it i dont wanna be her *****.. or just leave it alone and look for other girls..??
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The sound from your message is more like you are afriad to act like a wussy or confused if you are a wussy or not.

Ask her out, lead, have fun, flirt... i don't think that is such confusing.
 
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