"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ok.. there is this girl i really care about who i dated about 5 months ago.. we have always seemed to have a thing for each other since then.. she hasnt dated anyone .. while i have... she is a very hard girl to get and loves to play games. shes played games wit me for like 3 months and then when i finnally date someone else she gets pissed.... i saw her at a party once this summer and have called her 4 or 5 times.. the convos went good and all..... shud i even bother calling her back and if so how do i approach it i dont wanna be her *****.. or just leave it alone and look for other girls..??
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Maybe she's treating you as her emotional tampon???
If YOU need to call her "4 or 5" times but she never inturn calls you back (or calls you first) I dont think thats a good sign.
She 's probably using you as an emergency secondary "boyfriend". (Like you know, when she cant find someone to date she will go to you as the last resort.)

(This should be your final call)
You could try asking her out for coffee and see what happens. If she gives you some lame excuse then tell her you letting her lose. Let her chase you instead. If she doesnt give you a satisfactory response then THE HELL WITH HER! Rub that in her face.

Repeat to yourself. YOU ARE NOT HER EMOTIONAL TAMPON
 
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Originally posted by texashorns55
ok.. there is this girl i really care about who i dated about 5 months ago.. we have always seemed to have a thing for each other since then.. she hasnt dated anyone .. while i have... she is a very hard girl to get and loves to play games. shes played games wit me for like 3 months and then when i finnally date someone else she gets pissed.... i saw her at a party once this summer and have called her 4 or 5 times.. the convos went good and all..... shud i even bother calling her back and if so how do i approach it i dont wanna be her *****.. or just leave it alone and look for other girls..??
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The sound from your message is more like you are afriad to act like a wussy or confused if you are a wussy or not.

Ask her out, lead, have fun, flirt... i don't think that is such confusing.
 
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