"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Confused-My Dilema

Viper423

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Ok, first of all I am a senior and I go to a small private school. Well, my best friend goes to school with me and about 2 months ago he introduced me to some of his friends that go to a different school, and they all happen to be girls and on the swim team. Well, I quickly developed a crush on one of them, and they call me to do stuff with them all the time.

Well, I guess some of the girls can tell that I kind of liked this girl so they ask me and I knew not to directly tell them yes, but they kind of figured it out. Well, to make a long story short, this girl likes me but has never had a boyfriend before and is real wild and indecisive. Well, the girls kind of get involved which i never wanted in the first place and I find out that this girl really likes me and she wants a relationship, but she doesnt want to be tied down. And I'm not really in the mood to pursue and chase after a girl cause I just got out of a relationship where I had to.

I always seem to go for the challenging girls and end up getting them, but I'm just not in the mood for another challenge right now, I want a girl that will do the chasing for once, and this girl sure isn't gonna chase me. So the other girls tell me," She likes you but you both want different things, so it's not gonna work out." Now, I'm 100% sure that at least one of these other girls if not more has a crush on me too, so I don't know if they said that cause they want me or not. But anyways, like I said, I want the girl to do the chasing this time, I mean I'll still do a little chasing, but I want the girl to do most of it. So, what should I do? Should I go for one of these other girls? I'm so confused right now. What would you guys do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Smooth as Anything

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I would have a threesome (or more).
 

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Well, it's kind of funny that you say that cause I usually show up to our school's basketball games with at least 2 girls, and now my friends and girl friends at school ask me,"So where's your girls at tonight?" Well, after the last basketball game we were walking to my car, and they're like,"We're gonna kiss you when we get to your car." Then one of them said,"How about a threesome." And I couldn't tell if they were joking around or not, so I just played along. They just each ended up kissing me on the cheek.

Anyways, my problem is that I don't know how to start making moves on girls. I've practically got my pick of whichever one I want, I just don't know how to go about it. I guess I wish one of them would start calling me more then they do already and come after me, cause I'm tired of chasing after a girl and not knowing if she really likes me or if she's just talking to me and doing stuff to be nice.
 

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Stop jerking off.

...trust me on that one.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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