"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Confused HOw to respond to the 'Is he interested? Sh1t test

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Now I've browsed female advice forums much like these ones and quite often teh advice given to girls is to say to the first offer of a date just to see if he is interested.

Given that the advice here is to next a girl who turns us down or spin plates how do we know if we aren't being tested to see how interested we are?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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:-) said:
Now I've browsed female advice forums much like these ones and quite often teh advice given to girls is to say to the first offer of a date just to see if he is interested.

Given that the advice here is to next a girl who turns us down or spin plates how do we know if we aren't being tested to see how interested we are?

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By not caring....if a woman is playing games....you shouldnt have time for a girl like that.

In all honesty if a woman were to straight up reject my date request....she gets "next-ed". There are plenty of women on this planet so there is no need to waste time with ones that are "not interested".
 

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Now I've browsed female advice forums much like these ones and quite often teh advice given to girls is to say to the first offer of a date just to see if he is interested.

Given that the advice here is to next a girl who turns us down or spin plates how do we know if we aren't being tested to see how interested we are?

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What female messages are you on. Rex needs to get over there.
 

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Then they can shıt test themselves all the way till menopause. I'll ask twice, and if I get 2 bullshıt answers in a row, I'm done. If she's looking for a guy that pursues, begs, pleads, and puts up with her shıt, then she's looking for a beta chump to control, so none of us here would be looking to date her.

So not only is it a bad move on her part, but in reality, it's a true incompatibility issue that you figure out very quickly when you sense the shıt test.

Bonus you. :rockon:
 
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