Me and this girl have been going out for about a month now and I know i really like her and we have a lot of things in common and get along great. She does a ton of stuff for me and she's told me she's really into me. I feel the same about her except sometimes my feelings get confused for some reason and I don't know how I feel. I don't know what it is that's bothering me either. I know she has a lot of guy friends, but I don't really see her with them because she stays with me a lot. I just don't know what going on with me. Anyone else ever feel like this?
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Confused feelings about new girlfriend
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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TesuqueRed
Master Don Juan
Why are you calling her you GF after only a month of going out? This should takes months of dating before you do the BF-GF thing.
I would think it's too much, too soon. Maybe your instincts agree. Something is giving off warning signals.
I would think it's too much, too soon. Maybe your instincts agree. Something is giving off warning signals.
Umbra
Master Don Juan
I agree with TesuqueRed. You're going too fast, bro. Slow it down and allow yourself time to really feel whether or not this relationship is right for you.
Digital Mastermind1
Don Juan
I AGREE DONT GO TO FAST IVE DONE IT MYSELF AND JUST GOT BURNED BUT I SURE GOT ALOT OF POON THOUGH. DEPENDS ON YOU BRO.
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