"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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confused by all these conflicting advice!

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It's true that there are conflicting advices in the DJ forum. If you refer to what Doc Love has said before, there are three types of women that initiate kino.

1)The women that touch everyone :Universal Toucher: 10%
2)The women that touch you accidentally or by misleading it and that's all you're going to get :10%
3)The women that touch you because they are highly interested : 80%

Referring to the statistic above, I can see that Doc Love is trying to prove to us that most women that touch you are the ones that are interested in you. Therefore, it is important to let the women to do all the touching. On the other hand,we men musnt do the touching that often because it will exhibit the need of desperation to be touched by them.

So, what's your explanation to those that urge other DJ's to apply kino to women?Isn't it contradicting with Doc Love's principles.

Please explain

Have a nice day!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Did it ever occur to your doc love that the girl initiating the Kino might be a slut, a tease, trying to make another guy jealous, or trying to set up a situation where she controls a guy by making him think she wants him?

Well I've had all of the above at various times. Just because a girl is all over you it does NOT always mean she has any intentions toward you. Don't beleive it? Go to a strip club someday when you are old enough.

As I pointed out elsewhere (and explained thoroughly so even YOU don't need an explaination) Doc Love is a moron. His logic on almost everything is flawed, and his premis about spending 30 years talking to women about how to succeed with women is ridiculous. Any DJ here knows not to spend 10 SECONDS talking to women about how to get women.

If I start the Kino, I am not only subtly preparing her to be touched, I'm preparing her to be touched by ME on MY terms and on MY timetable. Girls trying to use touch to send a false message for any of the above reasons will NOT LIKE IT WHEN THE GUY INITIATES THE TOUCHING. she is trying to be the one in control. Clear enough?

Good. Doc love may think the woman should be the one deciding when touching will happen and how much. I don't.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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