"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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confused by all these conflicting advice!

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It's true that there are conflicting advices in the DJ forum. If you refer to what Doc Love has said before, there are three types of women that initiate kino.

1)The women that touch everyone :Universal Toucher: 10%
2)The women that touch you accidentally or by misleading it and that's all you're going to get :10%
3)The women that touch you because they are highly interested : 80%

Referring to the statistic above, I can see that Doc Love is trying to prove to us that most women that touch you are the ones that are interested in you. Therefore, it is important to let the women to do all the touching. On the other hand,we men musnt do the touching that often because it will exhibit the need of desperation to be touched by them.

So, what's your explanation to those that urge other DJ's to apply kino to women?Isn't it contradicting with Doc Love's principles.

Please explain

Have a nice day!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Did it ever occur to your doc love that the girl initiating the Kino might be a slut, a tease, trying to make another guy jealous, or trying to set up a situation where she controls a guy by making him think she wants him?

Well I've had all of the above at various times. Just because a girl is all over you it does NOT always mean she has any intentions toward you. Don't beleive it? Go to a strip club someday when you are old enough.

As I pointed out elsewhere (and explained thoroughly so even YOU don't need an explaination) Doc Love is a moron. His logic on almost everything is flawed, and his premis about spending 30 years talking to women about how to succeed with women is ridiculous. Any DJ here knows not to spend 10 SECONDS talking to women about how to get women.

If I start the Kino, I am not only subtly preparing her to be touched, I'm preparing her to be touched by ME on MY terms and on MY timetable. Girls trying to use touch to send a false message for any of the above reasons will NOT LIKE IT WHEN THE GUY INITIATES THE TOUCHING. she is trying to be the one in control. Clear enough?

Good. Doc love may think the woman should be the one deciding when touching will happen and how much. I don't.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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