"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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confused bout life and my game

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sorry this is a bit long might waste 3 mins of ur time but please help me .....So just recently moved(3 months ago) to the states from canada..i'm at a new school..were i'm getting to know people but not that much..like i still seat alone in my lunch room because i don't know anybody at all..well i know some people but they seat with other people i don't know..right now i'm trying to be in a posittive attitude everyday even if something bad happened in my life..since i was a kid i've been always shy and i know thats not the way to get girls..right now i'm at a new school new country..since the first day i cam i've tried to be outgoing everyday..sometimes rejections..but i don't care...so my goal was to say hi to 10 girls a day and that soon got easier..
right now i don't know whaht to do how to become a player ..how to improve my game .. i need a GUIDELINE !!!..i'm at a point now where i really don't know what to do next i feel cormfortable in my skin now which i didn't ..i'm still nervous but i can talk to girls..what the next step i have to do to improve my game???
and what about girls on myspace what do i do about them how can i interact with them
alright thanks guys
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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a few more posts like this by people... and i'm definitely outta here

you capitalized 'guideline'... are you ****ing retarded? seriously...

you can't seriously be that retarded.

a GUIDELINE... oh my ****ing god... this is the dumbest thread ever.

i won't even say why.
 

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Michele said:
a few more posts like this by people... and i'm definitely outta here

you capitalized 'guideline'... are you ****ing retarded? seriously...

you can't seriously be that retarded.

a GUIDELINE... oh my ****ing god... this is the dumbest thread ever.

i won't even say why.
Dude chill.

Oh and also Steeler make an effort to go up to people. Girls wont go up to you and say Hi. You have to go to them with Confidence, otherwise you can keep sitting by yourself.
 

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All those problems you have? Throw it out the window. You say you just moved? Freaken awesome cause you get a nice clean start. Got nothing to lose.

This is repeated many times, but a very good way to meet people in school is to join a school activity that's during lunch or afterschool.
 

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dam!!!!

wats ur problems!!! dam chill...iigt i got it ..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sort it out yourself.. we're not little online Dr. Phils. This is not the place to ooze your insecurities.. and if you're wondering why your game sucks it's probably because no one wants to talk to a depressing emo. Take initiative, take back your life.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Lamia said:
Dude chill.

Oh and also Steeler make an effort to go up to people. Girls wont go up to you and say Hi. You have to go to them with Confidence, otherwise you can keep sitting by yourself.
you have no idea what i'm even talking about

the guideline of this site is the high school bible... pointed out millions of times... and also stickied... and pointed out another million times.

if you don't know what i mean... search all of the threads he's made. he's always asking us to make decisions for him...
 

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I have a feeling you really want to get this part of your life handled. So I'm going to get straight to the point no BS.

1. Learn how to start conversations (Open)
2. Learn how to get her attracted (Stuff like C&F, stories, push/pull, if you want use those three to start)
3. Learn to kino
4. Learn how to hold conversation (Read anything about vibing, overall just keep it playful)

Worry about that to start. Always try to keep on escalating, if she is alittle uncomfortable pull back attract more and try again. If logisitics aren't good to get isolation then go for the #. Try to get kiss closes as much as possible even if you think you can't. You will be well on your way.
 

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alright i got all you

thanks to all the people that helped me..that helped..
Michele, l'Arcangelo when you first started out you didn't ask stupid questions.you did so wtf is your problem man..i got you read the bible!!i will!!!..now shut the f up...you talking like a ***** like my post is gonna end your life..
stop bringing me down like u a *****
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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i admit i had a few bad threads early on... but i got over it quickly... and i didnt ask general questions or ask for a certain guideline that's ALREADY sticked.
 
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