"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sorry this is a bit long might waste 3 mins of ur time but please help me .....So just recently moved(3 months ago) to the states from canada..i'm at a new school..were i'm getting to know people but not that much..like i still seat alone in my lunch room because i don't know anybody at all..well i know some people but they seat with other people i don't know..right now i'm trying to be in a posittive attitude everyday even if something bad happened in my life..since i was a kid i've been always shy and i know thats not the way to get girls..right now i'm at a new school new country..since the first day i cam i've tried to be outgoing everyday..sometimes rejections..but i don't care...so my goal was to say hi to 10 girls a day and that soon got easier..
right now i don't know whaht to do how to become a player ..how to improve my game .. i need a GUIDELINE !!!..i'm at a point now where i really don't know what to do next i feel cormfortable in my skin now which i didn't ..i'm still nervous but i can talk to girls..what the next step i have to do to improve my game???
and what about girls on myspace what do i do about them how can i interact with them
alright thanks guys
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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a few more posts like this by people... and i'm definitely outta here

you capitalized 'guideline'... are you ****ing retarded? seriously...

you can't seriously be that retarded.

a GUIDELINE... oh my ****ing god... this is the dumbest thread ever.

i won't even say why.
 
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Michele said:
a few more posts like this by people... and i'm definitely outta here

you capitalized 'guideline'... are you ****ing retarded? seriously...

you can't seriously be that retarded.

a GUIDELINE... oh my ****ing god... this is the dumbest thread ever.

i won't even say why.
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Dude chill.

Oh and also Steeler make an effort to go up to people. Girls wont go up to you and say Hi. You have to go to them with Confidence, otherwise you can keep sitting by yourself.
 
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All those problems you have? Throw it out the window. You say you just moved? Freaken awesome cause you get a nice clean start. Got nothing to lose.

This is repeated many times, but a very good way to meet people in school is to join a school activity that's during lunch or afterschool.
 
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dam!!!!

wats ur problems!!! dam chill...iigt i got it ..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sort it out yourself.. we're not little online Dr. Phils. This is not the place to ooze your insecurities.. and if you're wondering why your game sucks it's probably because no one wants to talk to a depressing emo. Take initiative, take back your life.
 
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Lamia said:
Dude chill.

Oh and also Steeler make an effort to go up to people. Girls wont go up to you and say Hi. You have to go to them with Confidence, otherwise you can keep sitting by yourself.
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you have no idea what i'm even talking about

the guideline of this site is the high school bible... pointed out millions of times... and also stickied... and pointed out another million times.

if you don't know what i mean... search all of the threads he's made. he's always asking us to make decisions for him...
 
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I have a feeling you really want to get this part of your life handled. So I'm going to get straight to the point no BS.

1. Learn how to start conversations (Open)
2. Learn how to get her attracted (Stuff like C&F, stories, push/pull, if you want use those three to start)
3. Learn to kino
4. Learn how to hold conversation (Read anything about vibing, overall just keep it playful)

Worry about that to start. Always try to keep on escalating, if she is alittle uncomfortable pull back attract more and try again. If logisitics aren't good to get isolation then go for the #. Try to get kiss closes as much as possible even if you think you can't. You will be well on your way.
 
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alright i got all you

thanks to all the people that helped me..that helped..
Michele, l'Arcangelo when you first started out you didn't ask stupid questions.you did so wtf is your problem man..i got you read the bible!!i will!!!..now shut the f up...you talking like a ***** like my post is gonna end your life..
stop bringing me down like u a *****
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i admit i had a few bad threads early on... but i got over it quickly... and i didnt ask general questions or ask for a certain guideline that's ALREADY sticked.
 
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