Confused about this situation

[embracereality]

How do you deal with girls who are very expansive with other males? I like a friend of mine who is the typical girl who is not afraid to touch other guys, has many male friends, and she is in a long distance relationship with a guy who lives at 800km of distance, last time they saw each other was this August, so go figure. She never mentions her boyfriend.
I try to not make me too available, I never contact her on the phone ( she is always the one who does) and I try to show I'm a sexual individual, not some kind of gay friend to her. She frequently touches me and reaches for me on the phone often, seems very happy when I'm around, but as I said she kind of do the same with other male friends.
It's the typical situation of mixed signals: she likes me/ she does not since she is like this with other people.
what would you do. I'm thinking and talking to other girls so it's not like this is a live or die situation.
Thank you.

 

[Scuba Steve]

Hey, brother. I am new to this, but from what I've read and my experiences from when I was single, the advice I would give you would be to just go for it and make a move. Her re-ACTION will give you your answer.

Remember, a women's ACTIONS, not her words reveal her true intentions.

 

[marmel75]

There are no mixed signals. You havent done anything that puts her in a position that forces her to make a decision or take action like asking her out on a date.

There is nothing confusing about this. You are only confused because you want something to happen but havent taken any action to make it happen and instead are wasting time trying to read the tea leaves.

Ask her out. Go on a date. Then there will be no confusion. She either meets up with you and makes it easy for you to continue seeing her or she doesn't. Actions never lie once a woman is forced to tale them.

 

[ohrein]

long distance relationship

So many guys who have no integrity on these forums.

 

[embracereality]

There are no mixed signals. You havent done anything that puts her in a position that forces her to make a decision or take action like asking her out on a date.

There is nothing confusing about this. You are only confused because you want something to happen but havent taken any action to make it happen and instead are wasting time trying to read the tea leaves.

Ask her out. Go on a date. Then there will be no confusion. She either meets up with you and makes it easy for you to continue seeing her or she doesn't. Actions never lie once a woman is forced to tale them.

That's a very fair point the one you made and I agree with you. I'm behaving timidly in this situation.
The fact is at this point our relationship is a friendship, I met her a year ago through our social circle. At first I didn't care for her, since she is attractive but I didn't like her character but after sometime I started to like her since her character was different than I once thought. I'm afraid if I make a move at this point and she refuses me, I might **** up my social circle.
Even if I ask her out, isn't very probable she'll refuse since is in a relationship?

 

[greatsnake]

make a move-- if she doesn't like it, move on. No reason to hangout or put time into a woman that doesn't want you as a romantic partner.