"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Confused about my Sexuality?

fckmyashol

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it was a typical day chilling with the guys. we were watching a bit of ufc, and we all started to wrestle.

my friend jimmy tackled me to the ground. on the way down he kinda touched my balls with his hand. Accident of course, he did call no homo. but the problem is, the contact kinda turned me on. i started to erect. all the guys saw it and i ran because of embarassment.

im am a 18 year old male, with a girlfriend of 3 years. i always thought of myself as straight but now im starting to wonder?

help please?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Son of anarchy

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If u dont feel attracted from men you are not gay,and if u are attracted from girls u cant either,maybe bisex.
And most of all even if you discover to be bisex there is nothing wrong about it,homosexual sex is wrong if you are straigh cause its repulsive. :D
Or maybe it was just the genital touch that turned you on,man or women that did.
I dont see any problem about it,just avoid touch yoour friends ass if u are looking for any confirmation. :p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Analyzeit

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Just a tad of a troll haha

I think he gave it away in the second post lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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