"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Confused about my Sexuality?

fckmyashol

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it was a typical day chilling with the guys. we were watching a bit of ufc, and we all started to wrestle.

my friend jimmy tackled me to the ground. on the way down he kinda touched my balls with his hand. Accident of course, he did call no homo. but the problem is, the contact kinda turned me on. i started to erect. all the guys saw it and i ran because of embarassment.

im am a 18 year old male, with a girlfriend of 3 years. i always thought of myself as straight but now im starting to wonder?

help please?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Son of anarchy

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If u dont feel attracted from men you are not gay,and if u are attracted from girls u cant either,maybe bisex.
And most of all even if you discover to be bisex there is nothing wrong about it,homosexual sex is wrong if you are straigh cause its repulsive. :D
Or maybe it was just the genital touch that turned you on,man or women that did.
I dont see any problem about it,just avoid touch yoour friends ass if u are looking for any confirmation. :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Analyzeit

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Just a tad of a troll haha

I think he gave it away in the second post lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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