Conflicted, two girlfriends which to choose?

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The beauty about plate spinning is that it doesn’t matter if they both leave. He can just find more to replace them.
That's no different than a "regular" relationship though. If someone leaves, they can be replaced.
 

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Remember that girl B will become girl A eventually and when the chemicals calm down there will be a new girl B.

Women operate solely on chemicals from her endocrine system to sustain desire. Men do to but we have a more creative functionality towards these things.
A man can have everything she needs but she still only want to be his roommate after she levels out. He will eventually be rationed sex. Not as an evilness. But because she’s not feeling it but still doesn’t want to bounce.

You probably had the most insightful comment here.

I considered this as well, that Girl B will eventually turn into Girl A over time as we get more comfortable and learn what we each like. And that eventually there'll be yet another NEW Girl B...

I'm also considering the fact that as comfortable as I am with Girl A, I should let her go regardless of whether I move forward with Girl B or not because that relationship has obviously gone stale for me otherwise I wouldn't be doing this...

So with that said, should I be hesitant to move forward with leaving my long time girlfriend of 10 years for this girl? We've been a couple for coming up on a year already...

I figure if we break up I'll just find another, maybe a little heartache depending on the reason of the breakup but either I'll find another or my ex might want to rekindle things, 10 years is a strong bond and she's comfortable with me, so I would think she'd get back together with me in the end.
 

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That's no different than a "regular" relationship though. If someone leaves, they can be replaced.
Exactly, although in my case I'd be starting over with yet another new person after Girl B and giving up 10 years of history with Girl A. But if I really still loved her as some have pointed out, I wouldn't be doing this and I should let her go so she can find someone while she is still young.
 

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Girl A is better, but Girl B is the one you want.

Go with Girl B, and hope you don't regret it.
 

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What about the fact that you will lose a little bit of your humanity crushing a human being that doesn't deserve it the way you would crush her? I hate dumping women for that very reason but I can't imagine dumping someone after 10 years, ouch
 

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What about the fact that you will lose a little bit of your humanity crushing a human being that doesn't deserve it the way you would crush her? I hate dumping women for that very reason but I can't imagine dumping someone after 10 years, ouch
Do not underestimate the social acuity of a woman. Trust me, any weak man with a wife or exclusive girlfriend has lived his life thinking she was faithful would later find out she was exercising her feminine imperative behind his back, if she slips up in doing it.

The world is far more harsh than our modern civilization has supposed. Nature doesn’t care about right and wrong, it only cares about survival. It’s better to just accept that fact and rebuild, take on a purpose and vision of existence that helps to keep the world running, which is a man’s job. His leadership and vision holds the fabric together. A man is literally that one thing that keeps the world turning.

This conflict of which girl to choose is petty. Relationships are a trap. Biologically, a man doesn’t even really want one. He is taught that he should have one. What he really wants is to bang as many women as possible to spread his genetics (biology and genetics at work here) and live life to fullest extent. He is a hero of a story (that realization was important to my progress @stormrider, thank you). His story, which includes the people around him and his social circle.

The genders are flipped. Men told to be feminine, that it’s wrong to be masculine and driven. He is made to be a willing victim to a world of feminism and financial slavery. Women are taught that stupid “girl power” crap, which is both something they don’t actually want on a biological level and destructive to their being. Our civilization is an illusionary social construct suppressing the natural order, on purpose.

What the OP should be doing is developing himself, collect a harem of women, and live a bada$$ life, living a purposeful existence that helps keep the world turning. These girl troubles are ridiculous. You need purpose in your life OP. Not one woman that completes you. Value comes within. Not from anything exterior.
 

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Do not underestimate the social acuity of a woman. Trust me, any weak man with a wife or exclusive girlfriend has lived his life thinking she was faithful would later find out she was exercising her feminine imperative behind his back, if she slips up in doing it.

The world is far more harsh than our modern civilization has supposed. Nature doesn’t care about right and wrong, it only cares about survival. It’s better to just accept that fact and rebuild, take on a purpose and vision of existence that helps to keep the world running, which is a man’s job. His leadership and vision holds the fabric together. A man is literally that one thing that keeps the world turning.

This conflict of which girl to choose is petty. Relationships are a trap. Biologically, a man doesn’t even really want one. He is taught that he should have one. What he really wants is to bang as many women as possible to spread his genetics (biology and genetics at work here) and live life to fullest extent. He is a hero of a story (that realization was important to my progress @stormrider, thank you). His story, which includes the people around him and his social circle.

The genders are flipped. Men told to be feminine, that it’s wrong to be masculine and driven. He is made to be a willing victim to a world of feminism and financial slavery. Women are taught that stupid “girl power” crap, which is both something they don’t actually want on a biological level and destructive to their being. Our civilization is an illusionary social construct suppressing the natural order, on purpose.

What the OP should be doing is developing himself, collect a harem of women, and live a bada$$ life, living a purposeful existence that helps keep the world turning. These girl troubles are ridiculous. You need purpose in your life OP. Not one woman that completes you. Value comes within. Not from anything exterior.
The girl power thingy is a necessary evil.

Without it, millions of men would be jobless.

That's why it's men themselves who are empowering women into thinking they're super women with the ability to juggle multiple tasks.

Men don't shop on useless junk but women shop and spend on frivolous things.

Those things were designed by men, created by men, from factories to moving the goods via trucks that were designed and built by men on roads built by men to shopping complexes that's also built by men.

Just imagine if women's purchasing power was reduced by 1/2.

1/2 the total male workforce will be jobless.

And jobless men are desperate men who will turn into dangerous men that can't be controlled when millions take to the streets to overthrow the government.
 

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The girl power thingy is a necessary evil.

Without it, millions of men would be jobless.

That's why it's men themselves who are empowering women into thinking they're super women with the ability to juggle multiple tasks.

Men don't shop on useless junk but women shop and spend on frivolous things.

Those things were designed by men, created by men, from factories to moving the goods via trucks that were designed and built by men on roads built by men to shopping complexes that's also built by men.

Just imagine if women's purchasing power was reduced by 1/2.

1/2 the total male workforce will be jobless.

And jobless men are desperate men who will turn into dangerous men that can't be controlled when millions take to the streets to overthrow the government.
In this day and age, anyway. All advertising and media is geared toward women. Its impossible not to see some commercial or board that has a woman on it or in it because of that.
 
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Girl B is a ticking time bomb. You shouldn't even be entertaining the thought of a serious relationship with her...even if Girl A didn't exist.
 

jnMissouri

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Girl B is a ticking time bomb. You shouldn't even be entertaining the thought of a serious relationship with her...even if Girl A didn't exist.
Yup. We split again. There's something off about her. Just too much weird stuff.
 
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