"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LuckyDevil6

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Okay, so i've got a bit of a conflict here. Theres this girl who i've hooked up with last summer who i am beginning to hang out with alot recently, the problem is she has a boyfriend. But whats really getting to me is the fact how she'll come cuddle with me and all that good stuff. Just the other day she told me "I'd go out with you if I didn't have a bf" I told her she could easily change that, but she says, I like him too much or some BS.

She holds my hand all the time and tries to stay close to me, but I just don't understand why shes being sucha AW.

Any ideas in what direction I should take this problem??? :confused:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jerky Boi

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Tell her straight up that you wont do that anymore while she still has a bf. I mean it may seem all nice and stuff right now but in the long run you're just going to end up being shot down. Sounds to me like she just likes to hang around you and cuddle with you while joe stud's probably at work, but when he comes home you're long lost business.

My friend was in a similar situation with this girl Kimmie this past year. He ended up spending loads of time with her while she had a boyfriend. She even ended up making out with him while she was with the guy! She was a grade A AW and you could see it a mile away. I don't understand the logic behind this kinda stuff but I guess there are just some girls that like to do it.

While she's with her boyfriend, I don't care if she's with you or not, if she's not with you after all of that, she's going to keep going back to him. In my opinion, I think you should back off a little bit and let her realize what she's doing. Tell her that you dont' want to do this anymore unless she's single because guess what, if you ever hooked up with her, what's going to stop her from doing it to YOU?

BE A MAN :D
 
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Smooth Player 056

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Jerky Boi said it all-- she is using you and by cuddling with her you are being an AFC, Next her
 
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