"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LuckyDevil6

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Okay, so i've got a bit of a conflict here. Theres this girl who i've hooked up with last summer who i am beginning to hang out with alot recently, the problem is she has a boyfriend. But whats really getting to me is the fact how she'll come cuddle with me and all that good stuff. Just the other day she told me "I'd go out with you if I didn't have a bf" I told her she could easily change that, but she says, I like him too much or some BS.

She holds my hand all the time and tries to stay close to me, but I just don't understand why shes being sucha AW.

Any ideas in what direction I should take this problem??? :confused:
 

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Jerky Boi

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Tell her straight up that you wont do that anymore while she still has a bf. I mean it may seem all nice and stuff right now but in the long run you're just going to end up being shot down. Sounds to me like she just likes to hang around you and cuddle with you while joe stud's probably at work, but when he comes home you're long lost business.

My friend was in a similar situation with this girl Kimmie this past year. He ended up spending loads of time with her while she had a boyfriend. She even ended up making out with him while she was with the guy! She was a grade A AW and you could see it a mile away. I don't understand the logic behind this kinda stuff but I guess there are just some girls that like to do it.

While she's with her boyfriend, I don't care if she's with you or not, if she's not with you after all of that, she's going to keep going back to him. In my opinion, I think you should back off a little bit and let her realize what she's doing. Tell her that you dont' want to do this anymore unless she's single because guess what, if you ever hooked up with her, what's going to stop her from doing it to YOU?

BE A MAN :D
 
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Jerky Boi said it all-- she is using you and by cuddling with her you are being an AFC, Next her
 
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