Conflict: beat the iron while its hot or let her miss you?

[Who Dares Win]

Ok there are two options while spinning plates, some guys here suggest to beat the iron while its hot byt going out with them and try to get as much as possible as soon as possible while others suggest that letting her miss you is the best things because she doesnt take you for granted and wonder where you are and if you are with an other girl.

Sincerly Im not sure about it and I would rather not lose my two main plates now while finding out, what is your opinion on that?

The difference could be the state of plate as if you already made out or not for example or how many dates you already have etc.

Do you have any opinion coming from your experience in that, in my experience I beated the iron while it was hot but those chicks were mostly girls I was seeing in my everday life...my concern is to look clingy or desperate with this other plates.

 

[MisterD]

you have to use both effectively at different times

strike when the irons hot for sure, and pour it on her as long as she's returning the interest

then once you've already banged, and you know you have her hooked, you can afford to go ghost for a little bit, to get her wondering about you and keep her on her toes

but i would never go ghost in the beginning for fear of her thinking i'm not 100% interested in her and she moves her attention to another dude