"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Conflict: beat the iron while its hot or let her miss you?

Who Dares Win

Who Dares Win

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 16, 2012
Messages
7,423
Reaction score
5,795
Ok there are two options while spinning plates, some guys here suggest to beat the iron while its hot byt going out with them and try to get as much as possible as soon as possible while others suggest that letting her miss you is the best things because she doesnt take you for granted and wonder where you are and if you are with an other girl.

Sincerly Im not sure about it and I would rather not lose my two main plates now while finding out, what is your opinion on that?

The difference could be the state of plate as if you already made out or not for example or how many dates you already have etc.

Do you have any opinion coming from your experience in that, in my experience I beated the iron while it was hot but those chicks were mostly girls I was seeing in my everday life...my concern is to look clingy or desperate with this other plates.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

M

MisterD

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 29, 2011
Messages
402
Reaction score
35
you have to use both effectively at different times

strike when the irons hot for sure, and pour it on her as long as she's returning the interest

then once you've already banged, and you know you have her hooked, you can afford to go ghost for a little bit, to get her wondering about you and keep her on her toes

but i would never go ghost in the beginning for fear of her thinking i'm not 100% interested in her and she moves her attention to another dude
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top