"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DarkHeart91

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Successful and confident men take risks in spite of their fears and the potential consequences. They are busy, value their time and will not tolerate anyone in their life who tries to jerk them around. They tend to be authentic, speak their mind and never hide their intentions or try to fly under the radar when they have romantic interest in a woman. They will never agree to be “friends first” or “friends only” when their interest is romantic. They will never try to deceive a woman and pretend to only be interested in friendship to mask their true romantic intentions. They are respectful, empathetic and generally enjoy the company of most women, but will never allow any woman to take advantage of them. They stand up for themselves, are not ashamed of their sexual desires and are proud of who they are and what they have to offer. They quickly lose interest in women no matter how sexy and desirable they may be if their interest is not enthusiastically reciprocated. They prefer to keep searching instead of trying to change the mind of women who do not immediately see their value. They get right to the point and are only interested in either getting a date or getting rejected. They are not interested in fence sitters, drama queens, women who are involved with other men or women who are weak and keep numerous ex's in the background for backup.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheMonkeyKing

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Good summary there.

I agree with nearly all, except the bit about being 'interested in getting rejected'...! Though I'm sure that was just a grammatical slip.

I don't get rejected. I just (very) occasionally meet people who are blind to my excellence.
 

hudpes

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Nice one, OP.

TheMonkeyKing said:
I don't get rejected. I just (very) occasionally meet people who are blind to my excellence.
This is exactly how I see it, and I'm totally serious. :yes:
 
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