"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Confidence.

VikingKing

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I get good advice from the experienced salesman I work with. I took this job because I travel a lot, and it's good at building social skills. I'm a door to door salesman.

This job is like nothing I've ever done. Sometimes it kind of blows. Lots of rejection, but you wouldn't believe the bvllsh!t I seen pulled off. These guys can get people's money to flow from their pocket.

I'm training with some one I never trained with before. He's kind of crazy, but he tells me good stuff. He always, always talks about confidence. He says you have believe they are going to buy, and if they don't just move on right away. He even referenced picking girls up at bars, he says "you have to be confident to pick up a girl right? Same thing here."

It can be great some days, and rough others. I've gotten some good sales, and if I can make those kinds of sales 4 times a day, it's really good money. A few guys made between 1000, and 1600 dollars in a week.

I worked business for my first time today, it was brutal. I still going in and try though.

For example, I had two sales I know I could have got today if I closed them properly. One was this mexican lady, who had to have her sons translate for me as I showed her what it works on, she wanted it. Another was this 34 year old Vietnamese woman who worked in a nail salon, but my pitch and demos were sh!t. She gave me the time of day, and was receptive, so had I done it right she would have bought a case I bet. But I lacked confidence.

I do miss sales that I know I should have had, but I lost frame and then confidence.

I didn't make sh!t today. But when it rains, it pours.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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