"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Confidence.

VikingKing

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I get good advice from the experienced salesman I work with. I took this job because I travel a lot, and it's good at building social skills. I'm a door to door salesman.

This job is like nothing I've ever done. Sometimes it kind of blows. Lots of rejection, but you wouldn't believe the bvllsh!t I seen pulled off. These guys can get people's money to flow from their pocket.

I'm training with some one I never trained with before. He's kind of crazy, but he tells me good stuff. He always, always talks about confidence. He says you have believe they are going to buy, and if they don't just move on right away. He even referenced picking girls up at bars, he says "you have to be confident to pick up a girl right? Same thing here."

It can be great some days, and rough others. I've gotten some good sales, and if I can make those kinds of sales 4 times a day, it's really good money. A few guys made between 1000, and 1600 dollars in a week.

I worked business for my first time today, it was brutal. I still going in and try though.

For example, I had two sales I know I could have got today if I closed them properly. One was this mexican lady, who had to have her sons translate for me as I showed her what it works on, she wanted it. Another was this 34 year old Vietnamese woman who worked in a nail salon, but my pitch and demos were sh!t. She gave me the time of day, and was receptive, so had I done it right she would have bought a case I bet. But I lacked confidence.

I do miss sales that I know I should have had, but I lost frame and then confidence.

I didn't make sh!t today. But when it rains, it pours.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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