"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AAAgent

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Do you think the confidence threads or things used to motivate and push us to build confidence would work for women as well? I'm trying to help a female with building confidence but i know alot of women don't take negative reinforcement well and aren't good with just sucking it up.

I was thinking about going the positive reinforcement route with her and seeing how it goes.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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slaog

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Yeah they would. Alot of advice on here is about improving peoples lives and not just about getting women. Getting hobbies, developing many interests, stop whinging, setting goals, understanding social behaviours, improving body language, finding a quality partner etc etc.


There's different ways of helping people but before all that they have to want to help themselves. If she doesn't want to help herself you could be wasting your time.
 

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I think female confidence and male confidence have two different sources, Males generally get confidence from being better at something than others i.e being the star quaterback, or a police officer, a sense of superiority gives men there confidence often, where as women get there confidence from the attention they get.. So tell her to dress more revealing.

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