"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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confidence problem too hard on myself

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hey guys i think i discovered my problem with girls i notice that when i get rejected by one or whatever it will really bring me down and affect me bad... but i noticed this in life general as when i play sports for example basketball if i miss a layup or somethin i will get reallly pissed and like give up for a little bit i think they have something to do with each other and i want tot know how to work on it thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Its a part of growing up. When you dont get something your way as a kid, you whine about it and pout.

Now, you're turning into a man, and you need to get over it, figure out what you did wrong, and fix it.
 

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i suggest you get over youre fear of rejection...how you ask? well you should go up to girls and get rejected on porpose say some stupid **** so you get used to rejection and you wont be afraid to be rejected! trust me man it works.
 

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Learn how to handle rejection. The easiest thing to do is to laugh it off. Stop taking life so seriously and live it on your own terms. You don't need to be able to score a goal or instantly pick up a chick to be confident. Confidence does not rely on what you do, but instead upon how you feel about yourself. You shouldn't need any reason or excuse to be confident. You should be confident just as you are. If you are satisfied with yourself, no matter what you do, this is projected as confidence.

-Damian

"The essence of being confident is just being happy with who you are."
 
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alrihgt man yeah im going to work on that cuz i just thought that ive been noticing that and it probaley relates to women... so just go out and live and i dont care any more you know thanks alot any one else?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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im not scared of gettin rejected guys i thin kwe got it wrong lol.... i will go up to girls its just that i take it hard after if i do get rejected and it will RUIN my night i was just wondering on some tips to make that go away a little
 

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if you said that you're not scared of getting rejected, then it shouldn't ruin any day of your life to begin with! :D

But anyway, I suggest doing something that you can really enjoy... like

reading
drawing
sleeping
playing games
go out with your buddies (recommended)
work out (also recommended)
etc

you know...do something productive to get your mind off the whole fact that rejection ruined your day. It shouldn't screw with your lifestyle. It's your life, you be in control of your emotions!
 
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