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Senior Don Juan
Trying to become better with approaching women and having conversations I find myself hitting up the mall or some sort of enviornment with a lot of girls around. At this point I am not trying to number close, just to get over my approach anxiety is what I am working on.
Anyway, on Wensday I was at a clothing store looking for some new jeans and I see this chick (HB7) several feet away from me. I slowly make my way to her and initiate small talk for about 10-15 minutes and we go our sepeate ways. Then about 20 minutes later I see another girl (HB8) and talk to her too. I left the store feeling pretty good for what its worth...felt pretty confident as soon as I entered the store.
The very next day I went to the mall but the complete opposite happened...I felt like ****. I saw some good looking girls but I did not have the balls to approach one of them and felt like complete garbage the whole time I was there. I pretty much wasted one hour of my time leaving with my head held down. It just didn't click for me that day. I find this strange considering that I had a good time the day before.
This is not anything new. One day I will feel like Superman and the next day I feel like the guy that Superman beat the crap out of. I present myself the best I can every time I go out. Maybe I need to approach more girls in more of a secluded area compared to a busy place like a mall. I don't know...I just find this odd.
Anyway, on Wensday I was at a clothing store looking for some new jeans and I see this chick (HB7) several feet away from me. I slowly make my way to her and initiate small talk for about 10-15 minutes and we go our sepeate ways. Then about 20 minutes later I see another girl (HB8) and talk to her too. I left the store feeling pretty good for what its worth...felt pretty confident as soon as I entered the store.
The very next day I went to the mall but the complete opposite happened...I felt like ****. I saw some good looking girls but I did not have the balls to approach one of them and felt like complete garbage the whole time I was there. I pretty much wasted one hour of my time leaving with my head held down. It just didn't click for me that day. I find this strange considering that I had a good time the day before.
This is not anything new. One day I will feel like Superman and the next day I feel like the guy that Superman beat the crap out of. I present myself the best I can every time I go out. Maybe I need to approach more girls in more of a secluded area compared to a busy place like a mall. I don't know...I just find this odd.