The first thing we need to do is drop the term Confidence all together.
What we need to do is focus on what we want to do, and how to do it.
Thinking about confidence only screws your game up.
Right when ur doing good, it starts.
"Am I confident yet? Am I flirtatious?"....**** that!
Forget confidence!
What we really want to pursue is more decisiveness.
Learn to react on an instinctive level. You'll learn that when interacting with a girl, the first thing that pops in your mind is what works the most!
And its all situational.
Learn what to do in a certain situation so that it isn't a problem.
If its something new, nervousness is natural. Embrace your anxiousness and just do the ol' trial and error. Its only worked for thousands of years.
Learn to just say "**** it" and just go all out.
Don't put pressure on yourself!
What we need to do is focus on what we want to do, and how to do it.
Thinking about confidence only screws your game up.
Right when ur doing good, it starts.
"Am I confident yet? Am I flirtatious?"....**** that!
Forget confidence!
What we really want to pursue is more decisiveness.
Learn to react on an instinctive level. You'll learn that when interacting with a girl, the first thing that pops in your mind is what works the most!
And its all situational.
Learn what to do in a certain situation so that it isn't a problem.
If its something new, nervousness is natural. Embrace your anxiousness and just do the ol' trial and error. Its only worked for thousands of years.
Learn to just say "**** it" and just go all out.
Don't put pressure on yourself!