"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Confidence and a$$Hole are different. Explain how?

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Girls are attracted to a$$holes.

I'm not an a$$hole but I show confidence.

Maybe that's why I'm good with the initial attraction, but have problems keeping a relationship going longer than 2 months.

Women realize that I am confident but also nice (I don't kiss ass, but I like to do things that a$$holes wouldn't do).

So what exactly is an a$$hole? This is hard for me to comprehend. I'm not genetically made up to be an A-HOLE.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Here is a celebrity take on being called an A$$hole and promoting his new CD by the same title.

http://www.askmen.com/toys/interview_100/134b_gene_simmons_interview.html

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Gene Simmons: I have been called that many times in my life. "Gene Simmons has too much money and has too many girls -- he's a real a$$hole." Translation: I wish I was Gene Simmons.

Gene Simmons: When you are successful, when you are big, when you won the lottery, a$$hole means: "how come good stuff doesn't happen to me?"
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Essentially what Gene Simmons say its true. Not giving a fvck of what people say about you and doing what you want to do while being successful and getting away with it. That is the attitude of an A$$hole and some of the qualities are attractive to women.
 
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Women can be flaky, but I don't think the good ones are attracted to @ssholes. What makes you think that they are? You may notice that women enjoy @ssholes more so than 'nice guys' but that does not necessarily mean that they are attracted to them.
 
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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Women can be flaky, but I don't think the good ones are attracted to @ssholes. What makes you think that they are? You may notice that women enjoy @ssholes more so than 'nice guys' but that does not necessarily mean that they are attracted to them.
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There're all types of women out there. And some of the hot ones, for a reason, have self'steem issues so those are the ones that go to arseholes!

I don't believe that women with self-respect (hot or not) would go for them, unless the only thing they want is sex! Usually the type of girls you see next to arseholes are insecure, naive ones and/or b1tches!

That's my opinion regarding this issue!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by DJ24SEVEN
Girls are attracted to a$$holes.

I'm not an a$$hole but I show confidence.

Maybe that's why I'm good with the initial attraction, but have problems keeping a relationship going longer than 2 months.

Women realize that I am confident but also nice (I don't kiss ass, but I like to do things that a$$holes wouldn't do).

So what exactly is an a$$hole? This is hard for me to comprehend. I'm not genetically made up to be an A-HOLE.
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In the movie batman. The joker is fixing his tie. His woman comes up to him and says "you look good baby" The joker just dead pans her and says "I didn't ask"

That's an azzhole.

In the movie I think it was called The red skulls or Skulls.

The college popular kid is watching an event with his cronies and his woman. He is in his womans way. She says to him "baby I can't see"

He doesn't even bother looking at her but says "Imagine it"

That's an azzhole.

It's ok to be confident and a decent human being. I've been an azzhole and now I'm trying to reform myself into a nicer type of guy. So be what ya wanna be...you will still get laid and find someone.

Women fall in love with *******s but respect and are attracted to confident men.
 
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Re: Re: Confidence and a$$Hole are different. Explain how?

Originally posted by Metaphysikal_Lover
In the movie batman. The joker is fixing his tie. His woman comes up to him and says "you look good baby" The joker just dead pans her and says "I didn't ask"

That's an azzhole.

In the movie I think it was called The red skulls or Skulls.

The college popular kid is watching an event with his cronies and his woman. He is in his womans way. She says to him "baby I can't see"

He doesn't even bother looking at her but says "Imagine it"

That's an azzhole.

It's ok to be confident and a decent human being. I've been an azzhole and now I'm trying to reform myself into a nicer type of guy. So be what ya wanna be...you will still get laid and find someone.

Women fall in love with *******s but respect and are attracted to confident men.
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They were some serious *******s. lol
 
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