I realized I can get digits without any problem. That part was easy. I even had girls straight up ask me what mine where. I just hesitate making anything happen after wards. that is my confession. give me advice or make a confession of your own
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Confessions (make them)
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
women haze
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I miss my ex gf...that's my confession. I know that is not the way of a Don Juan to actually miss a B!@#$ that did nothing but hurt you, but I can't help it. It's hard to move on and I don't know how you guys do it.
prairiedog24
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Everyone's been there dude. They say to spin plates and I agree. I'm one of the few wait-until-marriage guys around here, and I still agree.women haze said:
Time and new relationships are the only things that matter much or help. But they really will. I've had two girls I thought I'd never replace, and my 3rd one is far better than either. You know what? If I left her, I could do it MUCH easier than before.
It's part of maturity I think. Learning to take care of yourself and make wiser relationship decisions.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
